Prayer After the Death of a Loved One
When someone we love dies, grief can feel overwhelming, and even prayer can be hard. The Church invites us to do two things at once: to commend our loved one to God's mercy, and to let Christ console us. Pray this in the first days after a death and whenever the loss feels fresh. Where you see N., say your loved one's name.
The Prayer
Lord Jesus Christ, You wept at the tomb of Your friend Lazarus, and You know the sorrow of losing someone we love. Look upon me now in my grief for N., whom You have called from this life. I thank You for the gift of N.'s life: for every kindness, every shared meal and conversation, every sign of love that passed between us. Forgive whatever was left unsaid or undone, and give me the grace to forgive as well. Lord of mercy, receive N. into Your kingdom. Wash away every stain of sin, and if any purification remains, let it be brief and full of hope. Bring N. into the light of Your face, where there is no more mourning or pain, and where every tear is wiped away. Comfort me and all who mourn. In the empty places of our days, be our consolation. When grief comes in waves, let us hold fast to Your promise: "I am the resurrection and the life." Strengthen our faith that death is not the end, and that we hope to be reunited with those we love in You. Mary, Mother of Sorrows, who stood by the Cross of your Son, stand by me now. St. Joseph, patron of a happy death, pray for N. Eternal rest grant unto N., O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him (or her). May he (or she) rest in peace. Amen.
Suggested saints: Our Lady of Sorrows and St. Joseph. Having a Mass offered for the soul of your loved one is one of the greatest gifts you can give.
See also: Prayer for a Departed Soul, Eternal Rest, and Prayers for the Dead: All Souls' Day and the Month of November.
About this prayer: This is an original prayer written for Daily Catholic Prayers. It is not a traditional text and is not attributed to any saint. You are welcome to pray it and share it.
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